On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy dives into the importance of truly living while we’re alive. After reading Matt Haig's powerful new book, The Midnight Train, I was reminded of something that can be so easy to forget:  life can quickly become a series of routines if we're not intentional about how we live it. The truth is, balancing everything on our plates isn't easy. But at what point do we set gentle boundaries and give ourselves permission to say no to the things that leave us simply going through the motions instead of actually living? We're all so busy planning for the future, chasing the next big milestone, and waiting for the "right time" that we often forget to fully experience the life happening right now. From breaking free of autopilot and letting go of perfectionism to saying yes to the moments that make us feel most alive, this episode is a reminder that life isn't meant to be postponed or lived on other people’s terms. Because one day all we'll have are the memories we created...or the ones we WISH we had.I hope this conversation inspires you to slow down, be present, and reclaim the life you may feel is passing you by.

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#383: The boys talk about people who are offended by what their friends like on instagran; Skeery is freaking out over a bird that crashed into and broke his living room window; Brody finds a major snowflake trolling instagram; Skeery got an email from Skeery; The boys consider wearing the viral prototype "poop shoes;" the boys discuss the new game show looking for the dumbest person in America

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We debate whether overeating is actually a reward, Danielle tries to convince Sheldon she needs another Halloween decoration, Garrett sparks a gift-giving etiquette debate, Nate shares the surprising origins of common phrases, and Scary finds a thoughtful way to avoid wasting food before vacation.

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Shania Twain stops by to celebrate her new album Little Miss Twain, sharing stories about her mother, growing up performing in smoky bars, recovering from vocal surgery, collaborating with Harry Styles, and the memories that inspired her most personal songs yet.

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Shania Twain stops by to celebrate her new album Little Miss Twain, sharing stories about her mother, growing up performing in smoky bars, recovering from vocal surgery, collaborating with Harry Styles, and the memories that inspired her most personal songs yet.

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A girl phone taps her best guy friend who hasn’t been horsing around at the gym- and Garrett calls from the gym to let him know he’s being kicked out!

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A girl phone taps her best guy friend who hasn’t been horsing around at the gym- and Garrett calls from the gym to let him know he’s being kicked out!

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Another emergency!! We discuss the two Salt Lake City separations, In the City, and McBee Dynasty! 

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